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Writer's pictureKristin Rose Stinavage

Parenting Plans vs. Play: How Kids Teach Us to Live in the Moment

Kids at Work: The Hilarious Parallels Between Office Life and Childhood Play

Picture this: a child is intently folding, unfolding, squashing, and dragging around a cardboard box like they’re handling the most important task of their life. Then, along comes a parent, towering over them, saying, “Time to go.” The child looks up with that familiar expression: I’m working!

Trevor Noah humorously captures this scene, likening it to an adult being yanked out of their office mid-email by a giant who decides it’s time to go. Suddenly, we realize kids are serious about their tasks, just as we are with ours. They may not be handling spreadsheets or sending emails, but in their world, that box represents a crucial job.

This playful comparison between the office grind and a child's world underscores a deeper truth: kids have their own priorities, even if their "work" seems trivial to us. It’s a reminder of the constant balancing act parents face—navigating the importance of a child's imagination and play while keeping the family running smoothly.


Do Adults Really Have It All Together?

Trevor’s conversation then takes a sharp, witty turn to challenge a universal belief: that adults, especially parents, always have a plan. As kids, we grow up thinking our parents are omnipotent, infallible beings with answers for everything. But there’s a pivotal moment when many of us, even at a young age, begin to realize that adults might not always know what they’re doing.

Trevor shared a funny (yet enlightening) story from his childhood when his mom got into a car accident that he saw coming. When his mom asked why he didn’t warn her, his simple response was, “Because you know how to drive!” It’s a relatable scenario, where the child believes the adult has everything under control—until they don’t.

It’s this kind of insight that makes parenting both humorous and humbling. As we grow into the role, we quickly discover that raising a family doesn’t come with a manual, and often, we're figuring things out as we go along. Parenting is an endless improvisation where we juggle between handling day-to-day logistics and nurturing the emotional needs of our children.


Building a Family: The Balancing Act of Plans and Play

In the chaos of building a family, adults often find themselves caught between planning for the future and managing the present. One child insightfully observed that adults “don’t live in the moment.” Instead, they’re always thinking ahead—scheduling, organizing, and worrying about what's next. Kids, on the other hand, are brilliant at living in the now. They don’t think about what’s coming up tomorrow or how their current choices might impact next week—they are fully immersed in the moment, whether they’re playing with a box or dreaming up new worlds.

Perhaps this is one of the witty takeaways from the conversation: we adults could learn a thing or two from the way kids see life. While we’re busy trying to raise them right—planning, protecting, and providing—it’s worth remembering that the best moments in building a family often come from letting go of our plans and embracing the unpredictability that kids bring into our lives.

Raising children, much like any monumental task, involves trial and error, self-reflection, and plenty of humor. As much as we teach our kids, they have just as much (if not more) to teach us—about play, presence, and the fact that no one really has it all figured out.

In the end, family life is a dance between creating structure and finding joy in the unscripted moments. So next time your child is “working” on their latest cardboard masterpiece, take a step back and let them teach you the beauty of living fully in the present. After all, building a family isn’t just about guiding them toward the future—it’s about learning to enjoy the journey together.


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